Why, Torn Robes?
Many characters in “Torn Robes: Choices and Reckoning” experience pain, deep emotional turmoil, and grief. The custom of tearing one’s robes signifies profound grief, mourning, or shame. As a Christian author, I wanted to honor God through my work. After all, it was the passion He placed inside me that ignited the creation of “Torn Robes: Choices.”
One of the most tragic events in the Bible, is the story of King David’s daughter, Tamar. She was a princess who faced unbearable shame and grief, circumstances beyond her control. After being abused by her brother, she left his home in a state of devastation; weeping, tearing her decorative garment, and putting ashes on her head. How desolate she must have felt, betrayed by someone she loved and trusted.
This Bible story is one of many that illustrate how tragedy does not discriminate, regardless of who you are or your station in life. Tamar's life experience resonates with our experiences today, doesn't it? Although time moves forward, feelings of pain and betrayal remain timeless. The tearing of one's robe expresses that torment and grief.
In the Torn Robes books, Choices and Reckoning. I wanted to convey that we have the power to decide whether our grief or emotional turmoil will prevail. I emphasize that the choices we make define who we are. By expressing our feelings, as people did in ancient times by tearing their robes, we can release that pain rather than letting it control us, keeping us bitter and angry.
Am I suggesting that everyone should go around tearing their clothes? No! However, what I am saying is that pain and hurt are too destructive to keep bottled up inside. Even in ancient times, people understood the importance of releasing pain and leaving it at the altar of God. Will this take care of everything? No, but it is a good starting point.
Next time...we'll be visiting the town of Gilford.